I agree with you, 100%. And I also appreciate you breaking this situation down – so eloquently – while not Barb that is putting down.
(component 2) in reality, i recommend yet another thing the OP will not do too, while he gone 1 day, pack your s**t (at the very least a few of it) and stay at a buddies for couple to a couple times and then leave an email that says, “Now you have all the full time you have to be on Match.com” — that sort of wakening calll, the type of GAME CHANGER is exactly what he requires.
If you just (TRY) and split up with him, he’ll provide you with a million reasons never to and you’ll stay.
A few evenings away — and denied the REAL THING— will up sober him right.
But, if he’s been two years and she’s tolerated this crap — it’s not likely she’ll make a stand / move like this.
But i am hoping she does, because that is really what will become necessary (him and the relationship for her)
Shouldn’t the termination of Match.com accounts precede residing together? Also, it is possible to browse Match without maintaining a profile up. This person is nevertheless paying the month-to-month fee therefore that they can continue steadily to read, with no doubt respond, to email messages. Exactly what a narcissistic jerk! It’s time for an ultimatum: me personally or Match.com. Since he’ll most likely choose the latter, make sure to get bags already packed.
He will simply be more clever at hiding it I bet.