Rusty – you’re taking a really list that is reasonable and wanting to allow it to be sound unreasonable, with a few anecdote about a man being falsely accused of a criminal activity, and stating that while there is no exact concept of “work ethic” so it should not be from the list. Simply her a snob because you don’t know her PRECISE definition of work ethic, doesn’t make. We don’t think we’re able to show up with an accurate concept of some body being “in good physical shape” either, but are individuals snobs for attempting to be with a person who is in good condition? (whatever their meaning is? ) Wanting a man whom methods good hygiene, is economically stable, maybe maybe maybe not addicted, isn’t married etc. Are all reasonable. If a person includes a job that is dirty he is going house and tidy up before a romantic date. We accustomed have a working work in a printing store, and that’s the things I would do. Tidy up prior to going down. As for your liberal/conservative jazz, i’ve NO CLUE what you’re taking place about, or just just just how that is also highly relevant to a girl wanting a guy become hygenic, have good work ethic, non-addicted, perhaps not hitched, and really should be ready to accept any criminal record, because most likely many people are falsely accused of crimes.